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ElderCare Advocates is a team practice, staffed by seasoned geriatric
care managers, gerontologists, psychotherapists, and consultants who
understand the process of aging and the challenges it presents. We
recognize that caring for an elderly loved one can be stressful, guilt
provoking, time intensive, and often frustrating.
We also understand that you have been putting off making this call for quite
some time now, and that you are finally reaching out to us because you
are worried, can no longer afford to wait and see how things turn out,
and are very near your wits' end. We recognize that you probably feel
very awkward and embarrassed in making this call and having to discuss
highly personal matters with
total strangers; however for your peace of mind we just want you to know that
regardless of what you will tell us we've
probably heard it, or something just like it, from someone else before
you. Now that you have finally made the
correct decision by contacting us,
and we have hopefully acknowledged at least some of your feelings and
concerns, we want you to know that we empathize with you and your
apprehensions. As such, we wish to reassure you that at ElderCare
Advocates our primary goals are, first and foremost, securing
the safety of your family member, preventing that "dreaded crisis"
otherwise known as the "worst-case scenario" from ever materializing,
establishing a viable and secure plan of care, and restoring stability.
Our objectives are simple enough: tackling head on both the problems and the concerns frequently associated with
aging; namely, an increasing loss
of independence, function, self, and ultimately hope. Our
goals are also quite simple, wherever and
whenever, to the degree that is possible, we strive to improve the
quality of life for your parent and provide them with a sense of hope
and meaningfulness at their stage of life, to the best of our abilities.
Having said all this, we also try never to overlook the importance of providing
respite for the caregiver, relieving them of some of their
numerous chores and responsibilities, and hopefully preventing
"caregiver burnout." ElderCare Advocates subscribes to the philosophy
that by minimizing the stress on the adult-child, the needs of the
parents will be better served.
ElderCare Advocates is a family business.
We understand the unique dynamics of family relationships in
contemporary American society, as well as the many conflicts and
concerns inherent in the intergenerational partnership.
We have never subscribed to the old wives' myth that "one parent can take
care of ten children, but ten children cannot take care of one
parent." At ElderCare Advocates we recognize many of the difficulties associated with
the "sandwich generation", such as: adult children living at a distance,
dual-working spouses, caring for younger children, or caring for our own
declining
health as we ourselves age, to name but a few. Nevertheless, we remain
both optimistic and singularly
committed to finding acceptable solutions for these as well as for some of
the other
difficult choices you will face.
At ElderCare Advocates we never forget our professional duty and will
always demonstrate the utmost sensitivity and good judgment when dealing
with delicate issues and difficult situations.

Fred
Moskovitz graduated from Brooklyn College of The City University of
New York (CUNY) with a BA in Psychology in 1971. He attended graduate
school at The City College of The City University of New York (CUNY) and
received an MS in Education in School
Psychology in 1974. He
received a post-graduate Certificate in Gerontology, with distinction, from Marymount
Manhattan College in 2001, and earned his doctorate (Psy. D.) in
Psychology from California Coast University in 2004. Additionally, Fred
spent upward of fifteen years studying at major Rabbinical institutions
where he studied Ethics, Talmudic reasoning, and Pastoral Care. Fred
is currently certified as a long-term care manager (CMC) through
the National Academy of Certified Care Managers (NACCM).
Fred
established ElderCare Advocates in 1999 after spending 25 successful
years in the diamond and precious stone industry. He decided to combine
his extensive knowledge of business, management, communication, and
negotiation together with his passion for working with people, and in
particular with the elderly. Having grown up in a family of nursing home
entrepreneurs, Fred is intimately knowledgeable about skilled nursing
facilities, institutional models, as well as their strengths and
numerous weaknesses. As a gerontologist, Fred understands that most
people prefer to age in their own homes, whenever possible, rather than
moving in with children or relocating to senior housing, assisted
living, or nursing homes. ElderCare Advocates tries to assist its
clients to "age in place" if they so desire, or to relocate if they
truly wish. By integrating the principles of good business management,
excellent communication skills, and a formidable background in
psychology and gerontology, Fred has developed his own successful model for
the practice of geriatric care management which he refers to as "Integrative and Behavioral
Gerontology & Geriatrics".
Fred was a New York State Certified Emergency Medical
Technician/Defibrillation (EMT-D) for 12
years until his retirement in 2001, and is experienced with many of the
common
medical emergencies associated with the elderly. Fred volunteered his time with the community’s largest private
Volunteer Ambulance Organization, Hatzoloh.
Fred was a lecturer at the Options
Program for Continuing Education at The College of Staten Island of The
City University of New York (CUNY). This
unique program was specifically designed to enrich the lives of mature
adults by offering them a second opportunity to continue their dreams of
studying in a collegial environment. Fred taught a series of courses
with such titles as “Caregiving for the Elderly”, and "Contemporary
Issues in Psychology." Additionally, Fred has
been a frequent guest lecturer at Marymount Manhattan College in a course entitled
"Death and
Bereavement," as well as having addressed numerous
community forums on issues related to
aging. Fred has extensive experience, personal and professional, in dealing with Holocaust
survivors, their
children, and families. He has led a grief counseling support group for
young widows at the Metropolitan Hospice of Greater New York, and is
himself a trained hospice volunteer. Fred has also completed a
rigorous training program at The Alzheimer's Association
qualifying him as a support group leader, and attends their monthly
peer-supervision group as well.
Fred has served as a director of the
New York Diamond Dealers Club, a 2,000 member trade organization. He has
served as its Chairman of the Board of Directors, and was nominated as
a presidential candidate. His
daily duties included educational forums, ethics seminars, interviewing
new applicants for membership, and representing the Diamond Dealers Club
with both local and overseas dignitaries. Fred hosted the first combined
Russian-Chinese delegation to visit the United States, and was an
American delegate to the World Congress of Diamond Bourses in Israel. In
addition, Fred is an experienced mediator and arbitrator and has
participated in numerous arbitration proceedings between Diamond Club
members in dispute; on many occasions, Fred has successfully narrowed
intractable
differences into solutions acceptable to both parties.
Fred
has successfully completed a Certification course in Guardianship Law (Article 81), and
has
served as a court appointed guardian, on a pro bono basis. At
behest of the courts, he has also served as a court appointed supervisor
of visitations for a renowned family
embroiled in guardianship litigation.
Fred,
together with Esther Moskovitz, in one of ElderCare's proudest moments,
officiated at the 60th
Wedding Anniversary, and the renewal of vows, for an 85 year old couple
and long-time
clients of ElderCare Advocates which took place in a local nursing home.
The Jewish style ceremony was well attended by family, friends, and
fellow-residents, and was followed by a "wedding reception" in honor of the
"new" couple. Neither dementia nor stroke, thanks to the very able help
of their caring daughter, would prevent this loving couple from
expressing their life-long love for one another. The bride in a gown, at
the side of the groom in wheelchair, left the ceremony with a sign slung
over the back of the wheelchair which read "Just Married."; truly, not a dry pair of eyes were to be seen anywhere during this
historic occasion. At ElderCare Advocates we will walk that "extra mile"
for our clients.
Fred was instrumental in
coordinating and serving as a panelist in an academic discussion of
"Technology and The Future of Home Health Care." The informal
presentation, dealing with the nascent field of Telephonic Medicine, was
made at the International Longevity Center (ILC) in New York City and
moderated by Harry "Rick" Moody, Ph. D.
In January 2006, Fred conducted an
educational workshop for members of The New York City Chapter of Hadassah
on the topic of Medicare "Part D."
In May 2006, at the Rabbinical Council of
America's (RCA) National Convention, Fred co-led a workshop entitled
"Healthcare Chaplains: Alzheimer's and Dementia Issues." The
participants included U.S. Army military chaplains, pastoral counselors
from various skilled nursing facilities, clergyman associated with
charitable organizations, and Rabbis from community synagogues located
throughout the U.S.
During the Spring semester of 2007, Fred
taught a course entitled "Counseling Older Adults and their
Families," in the Gerontology Certificate Program and Department of
Psychology at Marymount Manhattan College.
Fred recently (2007) appeared on
"Innersight" a weekly broadcast dealing with educational issues on
PBS Cablevision, Channel 20, where he was interviewed on the
topic of "Geriatric Care Management."
In June 2007, Fred was invited to appear for
a second interview on PBS Cablevision, Channel 20, to discuss
"Counseling Older People," on the weekly broadcast entitled "Exploring
Your Emotions."
In May 2008, The National Jewish Council
for Disabilities asked Fred to present two workshops at their 22nd
Annual Convention, "Aging With Special Needs; Forewarned is
Forearmed," and "The Dagwood Generation; Is It More Than You Can
Handle?" The National Council is an affiliate of the Orthodox
Union, catering to the needs of individual's with Developmental
Disabilities and Down's Syndrome.
In August 2008, Flushing Savings Bank
hosted a communitywide seminar run by Fred directed towards Baby Boomers
currently dealing with aging parents as well as their own children
titled "Caregiver Burnout in the Sandwich Generation."
Fred is a member of the National Association
of Professional Geriatric Care Managers (NAPGCM), New York State Chapter
of The National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers
(NYGCM), National Academy of Certified Care Managers (NACCM) American Society on Aging (ASA), The National Council On The Aging (NCOA),
The Gerontological
Society of America (GSA), Friends and Relatives of Institutionalized
Aged (FRIA), Association of Orthodox Jewish Scientists (AOJS),
Nefesh (The International Network of Orthodox Mental Health
Professionals) Senior Umbrella Network of Brooklyn (SUN-B),
Guardians of The Sick (Bikur Cholim), as well a member of numerous community organizations
and charities.
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Esther
Moskovitz emigrated from Israel to the United States in her early
years, a child of Holocaust survivors, and despite having to learn a new language, went on to become a
member of, Arista, a national honor society during high-school;
she graduated
from Brooklyn College of The City University of New York (CUNY) with cum laude honors and
a BA in English Literature in 1975.
Esther
currently divides her time between her position as a partner and Officer of
ElderCare Advocates, with her career as an Early Childhood teacher. During her
more than seventeen years as a teacher of four and five year olds Esther has developed
a large following of satisfied parents and is greatly sought after in
the community; additionally, Esther has trained dozens of paras, assistants, as well as
coaching newly certified teachers in the art of successful communication with
children. With extraordinary patience, common sense, and with her feet
firmly planted on the ground Esther has "graduated" many hundreds of
children into highly competitive private schools in the community, and
is well respected by the administration, as well as by her colleagues.
Esther's
traits of calmness under fire, patience, and authentic listening when
combined with her superior communication skills tried and tested by
concerned family members and professionals, have made her an integral
part of ElderCare Advocates. She is proficient in the issues
related to long-term care financial planning, "spending-down" of assets,
applications for Medicaid benefits, M-11q's, and fair-hearings. Esther
is continuously upgrading her knowledge and skills by attending
conferences, seminars
and workshops and liaises on behalf of our clients with a number of Board Certified
"elderlawyers" when it becomes necessary for our clients to
solicit outside counsel. Additionally, Esther's commonsense advice
and input is frequently sought after on a variety of issues related to geriatric care management.
Her personal experience of caring for,
and advocating on behalf of, her mother during her final battle with
breast cancer has made Esther both sensitive as well as quite knowledgeable about
"end-of-life issues." Esther is a strong supporter of Advance Directives,
e.g.., Health Care proxies, Durable Power of Attorneys, and Living
Wills; as well as of Long-Term Care Insurance Policies.
Esther has many
years of experience in the corporate world, having honed her skills in
financial management, merchandising, marketing, and organization as the
Vice-President at Fred Moskovitz,
Inc. during Fred's twenty-five
year tenure in the diamond industry, and as its Chairman of the Board.
Additionally, Esther speaks and/or understands three languages (English,
Hebrew, and Yiddish) and even has a smattering of Hungarian to add to
the goulash, which has broadened her ability to communicate effectively
and relate to seniors from various age-groups
and backgrounds.
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